Engagement Ring 101 for Guys

While most engagement rings are made with gold and diamonds—often something men save up for diligently—it’s important that the ring reflects who you are as a couple. Some people opt for non-traditional choices like wooden rings or even tattoos, proving you don’t need to spend a fortune on a massive diamond. Whether you choose something classic or unique, expensive or affordable, the key is making the process special and meaningful to both of you. Here’s how to get started.

One of the most important steps is finding her ring size! If you’re lucky, she has a ring that fits her ring finger—borrow, measure, and return it discreetly. If not, avoid guessing her size. Rings can be resized, but it’s not ideal. To keep the surprise, consider having a friend take her to a jeweler to measure her finger, or we can send you a complimentary ring sizer for home use. Rings are measured in alphabetical sizes (UK) or numbers (US), so you’ll need to note her correct size.

A common question is, "How much should I spend on an engagement ring?" There’s no one-size-fits-all answer. The cost of an engagement ring varies depending on the design, metal, and stones. Our advice? Stick to what you can afford. It’s not worth going into debt for a ring. If she has expensive taste but your budget doesn’t allow for it, remember that a meaningful, thoughtfully chosen ring will mean more than an extravagant one you can’t afford.

Most women don’t have a clear picture of the exact ring they want, so taking her ring shopping can be a fun and helpful experience. Visit different jewelry stores, let her try on rings, and pay attention to what she likes. Ask questions like, “Do you like the metal color, the stone setting, or the overall design?” Make it a special date, and don’t worry about the price tags—focus on her preferences. The more details you gather, the easier it’ll be to choose or design the perfect ring.

In addition to shopping in-store, online platforms like Pinterest can help you narrow down her preferences. If she has a Pinterest board with engagement rings, take a close look at the designs she’s pinned. Pay attention to the metal type, ring style, and stone settings. Whether she wants a standalone engagement ring or a matching wedding band, knowing these details early will help you make informed decisions.

When it comes to metal choices, you have several options: silver, white gold, yellow gold, rose gold, and platinum. Each metal has its unique look and price point. Here’s a quick rundown of the metals from most expensive to least:

• Platinum – The most durable and expensive.
• 18ct Gold – 75% pure gold, luxurious but pricier.
• 9ct Gold – 37.5% pure gold, more affordable.
• Titanium & Silver – Lightweight and budget-friendly options.
• Stainless Steel – Durable and affordable.

Price Tip: Consider 9ct gold instead of 18ct gold. The difference in appearance is minimal, and you can use the savings to invest in a bigger diamond.

Not every woman wants a diamond engagement ring. Consider other gemstones like sapphires, rubies, or emeralds for a unique touch—think of Kate Middleton’s famous sapphire ring! If she does prefer diamonds, you’ll need to know the 4 C’s: color, carat, cut, and clarity. These factors determine the diamond’s price.

Diamond Price Tip: You can save money by choosing a medium-colored diamond (G-M) and medium clarity (SI1-VS2). These diamonds look just as stunning to the naked eye as higher grades, without the premium price tag.

If you’re looking for a custom ring, consulting a jewellery designer is a smart move. Many designers offer free consultations, helping you bring your ideas to life. Before meeting with a designer, have a clear sense of what she likes so you can make the most of the consultation. Designers will often sketch initial ideas, and once you agree on a design, they’ll create a 3D rendering of the ring. This ensures you’re happy with the look before production begins.

Finding the perfect engagement ring doesn’t have to be stressful. By taking your time, staying within your budget, and gathering clues about her preferences, you’ll create a meaningful ring she’ll treasure forever. Best of luck in this exciting journey!

Finding the perfect engagement ring doesn’t have to be stressful. By taking your time, staying within your budget, and gathering clues about her preferences, you’ll create a meaningful ring she’ll treasure forever. Best of luck in this exciting journey!